What are the Human Givens?

The 'human givens'  are the givens of human nature: our innate physical and emotional needs and the resources nature gave us to help us meet these needs--our genetic inheritance. The templates, that enable us to meet these needs by employing our resources, are completed into patterns by -  and befitting the circumstances we find ourselves in.  They are 'downloaded' from the DNA into the brain of the foetus mainly during the last trimester of pregnancy.


We are at risk of becoming unwell, when our needs are not being met in balance or when we misuse our resources. Human Givens Therapists are well equipped to identify and deal with both, so that whatever someone's problem is, improvement is possible by bringing about positive changes in either or both sets of human givens. Invariably that means that the therapy is uniquely tailored to fit the individual.

The Human Givens

      the givens of human nature: our needs and resources

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The Human Givens  some of our essential needs

Security, which includes a stable home life and a safe environment to unfold and fulfil our potential

Giving and receiving attention

Having friendships, fun, love, and physical intimacy

A sense of autonomy and control over our environment

Being part of a wider community, which satisfies our need to belong and feel connected to others

Seeing meaning and purpose in life

Self-esteem, which results from having our basic needs met and stretching to achieve a meaningful goal, however small

A sense of status within social groupings

The Human Givens  some of our resources

Curiosity - an innate desire to learn more

Memory - ability to develop long-term memory patterns - learning

Imagination to help us focus away from problems towards creative solutions

A dreaming brain  to metaphorically diffuse emotional arousal left over from the day

The ability to understand the world and people unconsciously through metaphorical pattern matching

An observing self  that part of us that can look in on ourselves and is separate from intellect, emotions and conditioning

The ability to build rapport, empathise, and connect with others

A conscious rational mind

Further information on the Human Givens can be found at  the  HG website, including links to articles in mainstream magazines and papers.

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Elly Prior, HG Dip P, Cert CC Relate, MHGI, MBACP (Accred)

Human Givens Therapist

Gillingham, Kent, UK  Tel.: (+44) 01634 856176   Email

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Updated: 16/02/06